I had my 11 month follow-up with the Doctor at Mayo today (January 24, 2012). Here is a bit about it, it was actually quite a short visit with them. I didn’t have a lot of questions, and there wasn’t (fortunately) a lot to go over.
1. For guys in their low to mid 40s (and probably other ages, he was just speaking to me so said my age group), healing for ED can continue for 3 or more years! I had thought it was pretty much going to level off after 18 months or so. The more blood flow the better for healing. That means “rehab” is critical! Doctor’s orders! For me, with the 100mg Viagra, there are never problems. With the 50s, they almost always work. With the 25s, it is 50/50. With nothing, if I’m relaxed, sometimes it has been successful – maybe a dozen times in 3-4 months, so not anything to write home about, but they did say it should keep getting better for 3 years! Still amazed.
2. The Doctors said once you have continence, you don’t lose it, which was actually something I had wondered about – whether you should keep worrying about losing it. Glad that is a non-issue. It apparently can keep improving too with time, so keep up the hope and talk to your doctor if you are still having issues.
3. They said to try Cialis along with the Viagra – NOT at the same time obviously. But wanted to see how they compare. Wonder if there will be differences. I’m sure there will be some.
4. One thing I am curious about is whether it makes sense to do Viagra one month, with Cialis the next. Since they are different drugs, I wonder if varying them will help things along. Now that I’m thinking about it, I wish I asked. If anyone has asked, I’d love to hear it.
5. They want to recheck the PSA in 10 months – it was undetectable today.
So, all in all, positive.
Hope you are doing well out there too – I’ve just been writing this as I go along because there were so many questions I had that didn’t seem to have a patient’s perspective on the answers. If you have more to add, comments, things that were different for you, or just questions, feel free to post. I know that everyone is different so no doubt there will be lots of different experiences.
The big things though are: find the best doctor you can, talk to her/him, find someone in your area who you can talk to (there are support groups online or locally usually), and ask questions.
Try to get your spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend, or significant other to be supportive of the Da Vinci prostatectomy. There will be side-effects and if they are there for you, understanding and supportive of the impact it will have, it will make things a whole lot easier. ”Rehab” has now turned into a joke here because, hey, if the Doctors at Mayo “order” lots of “rehab” and it is a medical issue, then by all means, girlfriends, boyfriends etc should be supportive! (Alas it appears that insurance will not pay for “rehab” if you don’t have a significant other to help you out there).
And be proactive.
All the best.